Tuesday, November 15, 2011

On the 17th I am officially "full term" and baby could be born. This might put a damper on my Black Friday shopping plans, but being as how I've already spent $3,700 this week (and it's only Tuesday!), I doubt I will have much $$ to play with...

OK...I just wrote about numerous paragraphs in cathartic expression, and then deleted them because I don't want to hurt anybody I wrote about, in the unlikely event that somebody stumbles across this blog (hey, things happen). The anybodies I wrote about were my parents :) enough said.

So....Full term. Don't have everything I need (I need replacement pieces for my breast pump, a new boppy cover, warm, transport "outside" clothes for junior)....Also, a name for him (God help this child)...I need to figure out a plan for losing my baby weight, because I need a slammin' body post baby (baby made me fat, let's put it that way. I hate people telling me that I look great or that I am "all baby" when I can't even pull pre preggo jeans over my thighs...and can only wear two of my bras, which both squish out superfluous fat from the arm/breast area. Chubby girls know that I am talking about, and as I am currently a chubby girl, this is deemed unacceptable. I hate it. Weight, you are to be blasted away, immediately. I will not tolerate your insulation. You absolutely suck.

Maybe it's just being pregnant that has me bummed.

I am a miserable pregnant woman. Seriously. I absolutely love the baby inside and that God has enabled me to carry this little one, but I HATE Being pregnant. There is hardly benefit to it. I care not about the stupid closer parking spaces to buildings (why not slap a sign on my back saying "disabled"), and I hate that people "baby" me and don't let me do things at work that I could otherwise do if I were not pregnant. Not to mention I hate the weight gain (I was almost back at pre preggo size before baby number two came into existence), I hate the stretch marks, I hate that I know my belly is going to feel like a floppy mess for weeks after I squeeze out little junior, and that if they give me another episiotomy, I am going to have to deal with painful stitches, not to mention constantly bleeding down there and not being able to have sex for weeks after labor. I have my baby as my consolation prize, and yes, he IS worth it, but my point here is that I am just a miserable mess. I didn't even mention the heartburn, the morning sickness, the peeing, the not sleeping comfortably at night...The fact that now I can't even bend over or shave my legs....

See? Miserable pregnant lady. I would say that "I hate it" except I can't say that. I love my babies. The process to bring them into existence has to be one of the outer circles of hell, but the babies are worth it. And once I have this one and do not get pregnant for a few more years, I'll be singing a different tune. Right now the only "glowing" I do comes off more as I'm "radioactive" vs "beaming, happy pregnant lady."

Tired of being fat and tired...

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  1. ...and yes, this post is full of spelling and grammar mistakes that could have otherwise been avoided, and I apologize for this. Remember, I wrote a very long, ranting post before deletion and replaced it with a rant about myself. This whole process took two hours, and I am even more tired and need to go to bed. AHHH.....

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